Hey - just a couple things I've noticed.
1. The animations seem to go immediately to ejaculation before doing others first, unless I specifically change to a desired animation.
2. When sims are raped, they get a 4-hour "sad" moodlet. But a rapist getting caught doing it is embarrassed for 20 hours. Personally, I think the raped sim should be sad and paranoid for 2 to 4 days or more... And the rapist have a 4 hour embarrassment.